I am so incredibly grateful for all of my clients. The messages that come through for them move through me before they touch my client. I am so grateful for this. I am deeply touched by all of those messages, and this day was no different. A young man that had passed came through to a friend I was sitting with. This is the message he offered to her;

More love, more love, more love. The only reason we come back into body and to the planet is to give more love. More love, more love, more love. When all else fails, more love. Lean towards Love, more love. No matter how scary you might think things are, more love. Scary doesn’t come from Love, scary comes from fear. Scary comes from not trusting. Scary comes from doubt. Nobody fears love. That does not exist.

His message is that if you are afraid, then you are not sitting in a state of love. Move to the state of Love. Feed it Love. Do not feed it doubt, do not feed it fear, feed it Love….regardless. Feed it Love and watch it grow. Feed it fear and watch it die. Can you relate?

Feed it Love. It does not make any sense to feed it anything else. It does not make any sense to feed it anything but Love. Nothing grows from fear. Nothing grows unless you feed it Love.

He sends everyone Love because it does not make any sense to send anything else.

He takes this moment to focus Love in your direction, to focus it in everyone’s direction, including his own.

Thanking me for the opportunity to be heard. Feeling like he is being heard today.

Keep focused on Love and how you feel because it is that feeling, that Love, that makes things grow. It is the ONLY thing that matters. And it doesn’t change if one is in body or not. Whether one is in body or not, Love never changes, it is always constant.

Lean into it, rely on it, and embrace it. He is grateful for the opportunity to be loved as well as to love.

If you are looking for a way to feel good about his death, be grateful for the opportunity to have loved.

Don’t wait to love. Don’t wait until it is reciprocated. Don’t wait until someone loves you. Don’t wait, just Love.

Fear gets in the way of Love. Fear does nothing. Fear completely gets in the way.

It is not about how you feel about other people; it’s about how you feel about yourself. That is what gets in the way, that’s what locks up the heart and messes things up. It’s about what you believe about yourself, not even what you believe about others. And that’s the funny part, what you believe about other people is only a reflection of what you believe about yourself, how you feel about yourself. Has nothing to do with other people.  It’s not about how other people feel about you, it’s about how you feel about yourself. If you think others see you as weak or less-than, it’s really YOU thinking you are weak or less-than….they aren’t thinking it, you are. And, you can’t see anything clearly if you can’t see yourself clearly.

Here is the opportunity to realize it is not about how other people feel about you, it’s about how you feel about self….how you love self, or you don’t love self. If you don’t love yourself, you’re not going to grow. If you Love yourself, you grow. It’s like a flower….if you water it, it grows. If you don’t water it, it dies. And it’s Self watering, not someone else watering you. Nobody else is responsible for watering you! And you are not responsible for watering someone else.

If we are waiting for someone else to feed us love….i.e. validation, being heard, honoring, etc….that is an indicator that we are not Loving ourselves, that we are not feeding ourselves, that we are feeding ourselves fear. Even when we think we are not feeding ourselves fear, there are indicators that will remind us that it is indeed the case. Avoidance, ignoring, hiding, denial….is an indicator that you are feeding yourself fear. Waiting for someone else to Love you, to validate you, to honor you, to hear you, is a sign that you are not doing any of this for yourself. You are not Loving yourself.

You ARE worthy. You ARE enough. You ARE Love.

In Love and Gratitude,
Trish

The most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself.  __________________________________

Everything, all other relationships, is a reflection of the one we have with Self. And, all things are in relationship to all things.

All things can only exist through relationship to all things. No thing exists separately – ever. One is in relation not only to other physical things, but situations also – death/dying, birth, life/living, loving, giving, receiving, etc.

Your experience in life is a reflection of the relationship you have with yourself and how you consciously create through that relationship. We all consciously (or unconsciously) create through that relationship.

Picture this…as two keys are played, let us say on a piano for instance, the 3rd note that is created from that is the expression of the two keys being in relation to each other. That is the basic foundation for the understanding. So, all things are frequency, and all things are constantly in relation to each other. When two frequencies come into relation with each other, there will always be a third that is expressed. Sometimes we can sense that created expression, sometimes we can’t. Actually, it can always be sensed, if we are paying attention…if we are aware.

As humans, we have the ability to change our frequency, through emotion, and with intention. This enables one to create consciously an expression when in relation to other frequencies. Higher frequencies align with feelings of Love, Joy, Compassion, Trust, etc. Lower frequencies align with feelings of anger, unworthy, fear, not enough, etc. The frequency we are holding when we come into relation with something or someone else, will determine the 3rd frequency, or expression, of that relationship. That expression is then our experience…whether we are happy with it or not, whether we are conscious of it or not. In essence, the frequency one brings to the table will always determine the outcome or the experience. The experience is in direct connection to your frequency.

Your frequency, whichever one you are holding, is based on your relationship with yourself. How are you feeling about who you are or the situation you are in? You bring that frequency to the table or to the relationship. It can be no other way.

However, when one is aware of how this works, one can consciously raise (or lower) their frequency in order to create a specific outcome. This is intention. The key is being able to hold a specific frequency. Most of the time we are completely unaware that our mood or emotion is a frequency that is creating. It goes unnoticed and unchanged.

As one holds a higher frequency or awareness of Self, that higher frequency creates a different expression or experience. This is not just something that happens in regards to relationship with other people. It happens in regards to all things. Your DNA for example. The frequency (the idea of oneself) one holds is absolutely in relationship to one’s DNA, constantly! That frequency will either create a ‘healthy’ expression of the DNA, or something other than that. We are in relationship with all things, all the time! Our cells, our ideas, nature, situations, people….all things!

To change frequency, one must first be aware of the one they are holding. It can be difficult to consciously hold a specific frequency. It takes practice. One consciously creates through the relations of specific relationships. Being aware of frequency as well as the things that we are relating with, one can easily create a modified expression or experience. Again, be it with your DNA, your cells, your partner, family, nature, situations, etc.  It is definitely possible to master the art of consciously holding specific frequencies. Here’s the trick…you can’t fake frequency. Meaning if you are holding a lower frequency of yourself but pretending to hold a higher one…you are only fooling yourself.

Consciously creating through intention when relating is how we create. Everything is a reflection of our relationship with Self and All That Is. This certainly reminds us that we are absolutely responsible for our own experience. Blame goes out the window here. We are the only One responsible for our creations.

In Love and Gratitude,
Trish